If you don’t know anything about the mechanics of cars, when yours breaks down you take it to someone who knows what they’re doing.
When your computer starts doing weird things you take it to a computer store because hopefully there’ll be someone there who knows how to fix it.
When something goes wrong with your kitchen sink, you call someone who knows about kitchen sinks.
When your life is in shambles, you try to fix it yourself.
Why? Are you the giver or maker of life? Do you *really* know how it works?
When you make a mistake, learn from it but don’t try to fix it. Most of the time you’ll be making moves based on the same limited perspective that got you into the original predicament.
Life will always happen the way it’s supposed to.
Relax, live, learn, apply and only look back BRIEFLY to see how far you’ve come.